How to Achieve Your Dream of Love
Love is a powerful word that inspires and motivates us in all kinds of ways. At its most basic level, love is about finding harmony between ourselves and others. However, love encompasses a whole range of positive and negative emotional states, from the strongest personal virtue to the lowest form of obsessive compulsive behavior, from the sublime to the lowest form of vices. No matter what your unique state of love is, it’s important that you cultivate and nurture it.
In love, we’re not just exploring or discovering the other person’s attributes; we’re also investigating our own inner nature. Love demonstrates much more than the ordinary fondness we experience for our family or close friends. Instead, it reveals our fundamental beliefs about ourselves and about the world and our place in it. It can indicate our basic attitudes and our willingness to follow our intuition about those matters, or it can signify our overall sincerity about following our values, ideals, and ambitions.
In order to cultivate romantic love, first and foremost, we need to be very aware of how we treat our spouses, siblings, children, parents, and lovers. We must take great care to be kind and respectful toward them. Cultivate our ability to say “I love you” with calmness and genuine affection. This will go a long way toward providing love and affection in return.
When you find true love, it means that you’ve found someone whose affections match yours. It doesn’t mean you two have reached an exclusive understanding of each other. It doesn’t even mean that you think deeply about what you feel for him or her and seek to live by their standards. Instead, love comes to you intuitively through your emotions. You learn what your partner needs and how to provide those things and to make him or her happy.
So what does true love mean? It means being with the one you love wholeheartedly and without expecting reciprocation. It means being willing to be a good friend to him or her even though you two are committed to pursuing separate romantic goals. It means showing affection in small gestures such as holding hands or sharing a meal.
True love means being honest with one another. True love doesn’t just mean being nice to one another. It means being truthful to one another and being open to each other’s perspectives, opinions, and thoughts. It means respecting one another and looking out for one another. And most of all, it means always remembering the other person as someone you treasure and someone you can depend on in difficult times.